The person who “randomly” stopped liking you one day and told you that they don’t feel a spark anymore will seem like a liar since they text you every day and always seems very happy to hang out with you.

How could you have noticed the discomfort they had every time you brought up the fact that they “save” your days and you’re so happy you met them when you did?

How could you have noticed that their statements regarding the pressures they faced being the deciding factor on whether their partner had a great or horrible day could be applied to what you are doing now?

But to be honest you never noticed yourself to be codependent or it being a possibility that you may have tendencies that could be offputting to some

When people decide to break apart from you, it is always about them not knowing what they want or that the dating pool is filled with people who “don’t want a serious relationship”

and then when you check IG months later and see this same person in a relationship and you will then say “It sucks that I always have to be the one who people have to go through to figure out what they want”

and then you will go through every relationship and friendship in your life wondering why people can’t do right by you 

because that reality is real to you and that’s all that matters